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Serving pre-prepared food doesn't mean you're a bad parent

By Katia Hetter
Posted November 29, 2011

(CNN)–In this age of farm-to-table dinner adoration and making one’s own butter and baking powder from scratch, I rise up in defense of the drive-thru, the TV dinner and the semi and fully-prepared dinners from the grocery store. That includes bags o’ salad, minced garlic and frozen pizza.

As I return [...]

I don't own my child's body

By Katia Hetter, CNN
Updated 2:01 PM EDT, Wed June 20, 2012

(CNN) — My daughter occasionally goes on a hugging and kissing strike.
She’s 4. Her parents could get a hug or a kiss, but many people who know her cannot, at least right now. And I won’t make her.
“I would like you to hug Grandma, but [...]

Some Assembly Required: A conversation with Anne Lamott

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
Updated 7:14 AM EDT, Fri April 6, 2012

(CNN) — Sam Lamott, the baby star of best-selling author Anne Lamott’s classic memoir, “Operating Instructions,” was finally grown up and safely ensconced at art school in San Francisco.

Before Sam was born and during his childhood, Anne Lamott had developed a community of [...]

Girl Scouts accepts transgender kid, provokes cookie boycott

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
Updated 7:23 PM EST, Fri January 13, 2012

(CNN) — The Girl Scout cookie can’t seem to catch a break.

Under fire in years past for including trans fats, high fructose corn syrup and palm oil in its cookies, the Girl Scouts’ current cookie selling season is under fire because of policies [...]

Holiday survival guide for divorced parents

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
Updated 7:42 AM EST, Wed December 21, 2011

(CNN) — David Murphy hasn’t started shopping for his two boys yet, and he knows he had better get started. The divorced father of two boys, ages 11 and 14, has custody for a full week around Christmas Day this year and needs [...]

Punishment without spanking

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
Updated 2:12 PM EST, Tue November 8, 2011

(CNN) — Noël Plummer can’t imagine making a conscious decision to inflict physical pain on her 8-year-old daughter as a punishment. She’s only slapped her daughter once, without thinking, when her then-5-year-old was having an enormous tantrum.

She’s never hit her again.

While she recognizes [...]

Avoiding sexy costumes for kids

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
Updated 9:47 AM EST, Fri October 28, 2011

(CNN) — I have no idea why my 3-year-old wants to be a cowboy for Halloween this year, because she won’t tell me. That’s OK. I don’t need to know her reasoning to make it happen.

Thanks to her outdoorsy grandparents who live in [...]

When your kid isn't invited

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
Updated 8:52 AM EST, Tue October 4, 2011

(CNN) — Olivia Nakamura can still remember the neighbor who always hosted a barbecue in his front yard for his son’s birthday party. He’d invite all the kids on their suburban Seattle block, except her son and the Asian-American children who lived there.

“I [...]

What's fueling Bible Belt divorces

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
August 25, 2011 9:34 a.m. EDT

CNN) — While the Bible Belt is known for its devotion to traditional values, Southerners don’t do so well on one key family value: They are more likely to get divorced than people living in the Northeast.

Southern men and women had higher rates of divorce [...]

Nation of adults who will write like children?

By Katia Hetter, Special to CNN
August 10, 2011 2:04 p.m. EDT

(CNN) — A glance at teen stars Miley Cyrus and Justin Bieber’s letters to their younger selves makes one thing clear: their handwriting is terrible. In the letters, part of the Habbo Celebrity “Advice to My Teenage Self” book, the content is messy and their [...]